Considering dating an older guy
To say men JUST want sex, especially young men, isn’t a fair assessment.They’ve been having sex for years, and it’s not like they can’t get it if they want it.Sure, some may be a little hesitant about how to handle or be with a woman’s children, but it’s not always a dealbreaker. Any man who hates where he is in life and resents others for it is going to be a drag. Sometimes I’ll cover the check when he’s in a tough spot and I’m feeling like sushi.
Other things, however, can be a little more tricky to handle.
They may be less inclined to marry right away or at all, perhaps, but that’s not the same as not wanting a real relationship. Stop it with the, “Oh but he probably wants some 21-year-old chick with perfect breasts.” There will always be scores of young hot girls roaming the planet.
You’re wrong to think he couldn’t be turned on by you.
Guys like pleasing women and being enjoyed by a woman who appreciates them. I mean sheer energy—a bright, capable man who’s in the earlier phase of his career and life can be a thrill to be around.
You know your body, what makes it tick, and what turns it on and makes it happy. I haven’t met a young man yet who said they would never date a woman older than him. He’s not jaded by losses, failure, or the spectre of retirement. You use it as a reason to blow them off, pare back your options, and fuel embittered stories about how It’s So Hard to Meet Good Men. One of my most popular posts to date is 7 Reasons Why You Should Want to Date an Older Woman. ” followed by a high five, which is kind of odd when you think about it. As I approached my mid 30s, I wondered if this meant I was now a bona fide cougar. The term conjures an image of a hungry, embattled woman with heavily coiffed hair, mummified in makeup, squeezed into a bedazzled top and looking to “score” a young man.